How to Help someone you know with addiction

If a friend or family member is struggling with addiction issues, you’re probably feeling a mixture of compassion, frustration, fear, and helplessness. You may be spending much of your time wondering how to help a drug addict experience success in their journey with recovery. It’s natural for those in your position to feel a variety of conflicting emotions, and you’re undoubtedly aware of the strain that addiction places on relationships of any kind. If that person has recently made a commitment to recovery, you’re probably also wondering how you can be supportive in ways that have the best chance of helping your loved one’s recovery be successful.

Knowing how to help someone get off drugs isn’t always straightforward or simple. Personal relationships can be complicated. As a result, it’s sometimes difficult to bring up addiction and recovery in a way that your loved one will feel is coming from the best possible place. However, there are ways to help someone struggling with addiction. The most important is to find an addiction treatment center that can give them back the life they deserve.

Although there aren’t any one-size-fits-all answers to providing a person in recovery with support, there are a few best practices and more than a few pitfalls experienced by those in your situation. Here’s what you need to know about providing genuine support as your loved one gets started in their journey toward a sober life.

How to Help a Drug Addict Seek Recovery

Get educated about drug addiction and recovery

Learn to differentiate between support and enabling

By now, you’ve probably heard the term “enabling” tossed around quite a bit in discussions involving addiction and recovery.   This is normal because enabling behavior often closely resembles that of authentic support.  Those who enable aren’t necessarily trying to sabotage their loved ones, but it’s often necessary for them to fine-tune their self-awareness to avoid acting as enablers while believing they’re just offering support and in some cases, protection.

Frequently Asked Questions

Most frequent questions and answers

What is an Intervention

An intervention is a carefully planned process that may be done by family and friends, in consultation with a doctor or professional such as a licensed alcohol and drug counselor or directed by an intervention professional (interventionist). It sometimes involves a member of your loved one’s faith or others who care about the person struggling with addiction.

How does a typical intervention work?

An intervention usually includes the following steps:

Make a plan. A family member or friend proposes an intervention and forms a planning group. It’s best if you consult with a qualified professional counselor, an addiction professional, a psychologist, a mental health counselor, a social worker or an interventionist to help you organize an effective intervention. An intervention is a highly charged situation with the potential to cause anger, resentment or a sense of betrayal.

 

Who should be on the intervention team?

An intervention team usually includes four to six people who are important in the life of your loved one — people he or she loves, likes, respects or depends on. This may include, for example, a best friend, adult relatives or a member of your loved one’s faith. Your intervention professional can help you determine appropriate members of your team.

Don’t include anyone who your loved one dislikes.

How do you find a treatment program to offer at the intervention?

An evaluation by an addiction professional helps determine the extent of the problem and identifies appropriate treatment options.

Treatment options can vary in intensity and scope and occur in a variety of settings.  Options can include brief early intervention, outpatient treatment or day treatment programs.  More severe problems may require admittance into a structured program, treatment facility or hospital.

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